I've always felt that a woman should be able to take care of herself. As a woman you should be able to do everything for yourself (besides kill a spider and fix a car) We all love to be pampered and treat ourselves to the salons to get the hair and nails did, but its key that you be able to handle your own personal needs as well. A lot of women walk around with hair weaves and extensions looking like mini Beyonces and Kim Kardashians.
When its time to take the hair off then they look like Cynthia dolls
and that ladies,... is not ok. lol Point is, there's nothing wrong with going to the salons and getting fancy but make sure you can maintain yourself in between visits.
Aside from beauty upkeep. Taking care of yourself also means that you can cook and clean. No one is saying that you have to be the maid of your household but you should want to prepare your own tasty and inexpensive meals sometimes.
Lastly, being able to provide for yourself financially makes a woman feel strong and independent. There isn't anything wrong with your husband or lover providing for you and helping you out as well but I was always told that at the same time, there's nothing wrong with having your own money for whatever you may need.
Being a woman is a beautiful thing! Never take off your invisible crowns ♥